I may make jokes about “pick me’s”, and talk my shit, but honestly ? There will always be a piece of my heart that weeps for women, who will literally go through life with no other goals or aspirations other than to be chosen by men.
Revolving their whole entire world around male acceptance. Basing their whole existence off male attention. Only being able to be happy when a man is in the picture. I feel for them. Truly. I do.
They will endure unfaithfulness, disrespect, minimal effort, and abuse in all forms, just to be able to say “at least I have a man”
Imagine not having an identity outside of a man. Lacking self esteem and self love. Being so afraid of being alone that you will literally accept anything a man throws your way because you’d rather have somebody than nobody, so. You just take what you can get.
It breaks my heart.
It pains me knowing that society has brainwashed women into thinking that we are unworthy outside of marriage and relationships. But we must release ourselves from that toxic mindset, and focus on happiness within our own lives. Outside of the opposite sex.
I say all of that to say this:
Pleasestop seeking validation from men.
Nurture your own souls. The right one will always come at the right time.
Even if they don’t, always remember that men are not a necessity to having a beautiful life.
God i wish someone would sell me a haunted house. Ghosts aren’t real and I’d love to get a really nice house for like half the price that it should be.
